I’m so glad You made it!
Hi, I’m Mary Wagstaff

I help women Fall in love with living an alcohol free life!

You deserve to wake up everyday feeling proud of the life you have worked so hard for.

You’ve created a beautiful life and you wonder… why am I drinking, it doesn’t make sense, is this all there is? Life moves in cycles and this is your next big breakthrough moment. To learn to receive, have fun, feel alive and to be in your full embodied pleasure as a woman.

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“Mary's work is life-changing.
It was the best gift to me and my family.”

“Before working with Mary, I was tired, depressed and uninspired in life. After Mary, my beliefs have changed. I enjoy life and am excited for each day.

I truly NEVER thought I would be writing this and not having a drink. Somehow, Mary creates a path for you without "clawing" your way through each day without a drink. ”- Ami Private Client

You don’t quit alcohol—you outgrow it.

my Energizing Five Shifts Process will show you how to Release Alcohol by Connecting to your values, Intuition and feminine pleasure.

It’s time to lead yourself the way you lead others—with love, clarity, and deep trust in your own power.

Honor yourself, fully, the way you honor your mission.

  • We confront our story with alcohol head-on and learn to bring what we are trying to hide in the dark, into the light. This shift asks us to embrace all the facts of what we are ready to change and allows us to accept and embrace our journey.

  • We explore shifting from our pre-conformed thoughts about alcohol to becoming a curious observer of our personal relationship with alcohol. You will understand your thoughts and triggers on a deeper level. This shift is especially powerful in learning to examine when and why we experience our sensations and emotions and what are the root causes and potential effects of those sensations.

  • Shift 3: Moving from judgment to compassion

    This module is all about cultivating a stronger sense self acceptance, validation, and compassion. We learn to allow and validate our own emotions and journey. This is the opportunity to learn to hold space for you, to allow yourself grace to be seen, heard, and validated so you can release old patterns of resentment and regret.

  • This shift asks that wherever you are in your journey, you are always reevaluating and creating a lasting commitment to self in all areas of life. This module gives us tools to embrace our own self-authority and learn how to recommit to the processes that make us successful.

  • This shift is all about learning to celebrate yourself, how far you've come, and the impact you've already made on your life. This final shift is all about celebrating the transition from the physical and emotional isolation that alcohol has created into a life filled with more love, feeling more joy, and offering yourself and the world more grace.