Money Can't Buy You Love, But Can It Buy You Time?

During my hula-hoop dance class

last night,
we were asked what do you think of when you hear the word, DANCE.
I said, medicine.
Another Woman said, A new found friend.
She had overheard her ballet teacher as a young girl say to her mother "not everyone can dance."
I had this similar experience with art.

My fellow student also went on to say, and It's FREE.
So are orgasms! We can dance and have as many orgasms as we want.
Why are we limiting ourselves!?!

YES!!!

I started thinking about all of the things I LOVE.
Dance, yoga, communing with nature, being in the garden, playing with Emmet, hiking, reading, making art, orgasms, being in circle with other Woman, planning my content, writing my book, playing the ukulele...

ALL OF IT FREE!!
For the rest of my life.
No money require.

But what it did take, was an INVESTMENT.
Not in STUFF, but In GROWTH.

All of the money and energy I have invested over the years, has created a NET GAIN in Time, energy, money and JOY.

When I go camping and I wake up before everyone else to do a sunrise yoga session, I always thank myself for investing 20 plus years in a practice I can take with me ANYWHERE.
I think of it as an invisible backpack of medicine for the mind, body and soul.
I have more time because I have energy to do things.
I am healthy.
I have emotional and mental management and can see my excuses.
I know how to honor and process emotions, cycles and rhythms.
I don't blame anything outside of myself for my emotions.
I don't need alcohol to solve problems for me.

Investing in dance, coaching, spiritual growth, ALL OF IT was a deeper look at my own SELF and what was possible in this life.
I was the one creating the constraints of joy, time, money and LOVE, in my life.

Self development with accountability, whether it's a dance teacher, coach, personal trainer, mentor, is the investment of a life time.
Find the container of the person that's already done it, learn from them, then it's yours to keep forever.

NET GAIN.

Every second you wait putting off your life, you will never get back.
This isn't to shame yourself, it's to say there's another way to solve the problems you have been using alcohol for, with zero side effects and that get you an actual return on your investment.

Not only do I spend less and make more, all the things that bring me REAL satisfaction are FREE.
I can't loose!

When YOU are the one you are investing in, the only way you can fail is if you quit.
In coaching we work on that too.
We get more comfortable with discomfort.
The other side, true, lasting freedom.

With love,
Mary

PS: How could do you think investing in your own mental and emotional management would actually GIVE you more time?
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Mary Wagstaff

Hello! I am a holistic alcohol coach and mentor and Mother of the a Little boy who calls him self smarty pants. I help Women End The Confusion Around Alcohol, Honor Their Wisdom & Reclaim Their Power. I am the host of the Stop Drinking & Start Living Podcast. I live in the foot hills of Mt. Hood Oregon where my sweetie and I will be building a healing sanctuary retreat. I teach yoga from the wisdom of my heart to guide others into a place of heart and soul in the present moment. 

http://www.marywagstaffcoach.com
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